...Ultimately, it was this friction that the new online players saw as an opportunity.
To understand the disruption, the layers of the anatomy of a traditional mattress store must be peeled back. It was not only a business idea—this entrepreneurial idea had a very specific ecosystem based on an economic reality. The amount of square footage required to showcase dozens of large beds created astronomical rent costs from landlords, an electric bill that could power a small city, and employees to work that huge carpeted footprint. This was not an incidental cost—it was fundamental to the value proposition. That showroom was an in-person representation of choices, a place of worship to the idea of finding a mattress on the margins because your perfect mattress takes a trip if only you have enough choices.
The sales associate was even more complicated to consider. The commission model, often regarded as the villain (in part due to the self-serving emotion of guilt), was the glue of that entire ecosystem. It created behavior to pay attention to the product, or at least pretend. A good sales associate wasn't simply selling you a mattress, they were selling you the knowledge of the story. They were mimicking the story about pocketed coils layered around you, all three hundred of them working in harmony to fit your you, a story of technology made from steel, foam, and cotton.They were translating a somewhat esoteric world of ILD (Indentation Load Deflection) and density qualifications into a certification of pain free wakes. The best of them were part therapist and part engineer, asking about your sleep history and your spouse's complaining about your nighttime snoring to develop an effective diagnosis on the proper bed.
But this marketplace also promoted its own specific folklore and consumer anxiety. Everyone had some version of their own "mattress salesperson" story. The uncle who talked the salesperson down to half price. The friend who bought some terrible mattress and had the pleasure of hire buyer's remorse or 100% anxiety. The folklore in this story created almost defensive, if exaggerated, mental conditions for many mattress shoppers, easily waiting in that magic mattress kingdom. They walked in and were armed with the assistance and support of the internet, had a budget, and a stance with a tilt defensively and perhaps an invisible sword. Negotiation was almost like a social new act or modern culture ritual. Everyone understood the list price was some make-believe, and the beginning of some kind of negotiation that would work itself out to some compromise in the middle. Once again, we are pretending that we were okay with our sleep and providing our own calculated reproach. It became exhausting. Your sleep mission had effectively turned into a sleep-based version of low stakes psychological warfare. The payout- a good night's sleep and the foolish thinking - we didn't pay too much for it.
Proprietary models deserve their own specifics. This system wasn't offensive; it was merely a defensive maneuver in a low-key way to combat the threat of comparison shopping. If Sealy sold the exact same model "Oakridge" in Mattress Firm, Macy's, and the local furniture store, Sealy's retailers would have to engage in a dirty price war that would erode their margins. They made slight changes, such as offering a different quilt pattern, adding an extra half-inch of foam in the comfort layer of the bed, or a different fabric cover and then had a different name for every retailer. This convinced consumers that these beds were exclusive and made it impossible to compare -- heck, you could not definitively say the "Sealy Posturepedic Silver Chill Plush" was a better deal than the "Sealy Posturepedic Oakridge Ultra Plush" because whichever name was, by definition, a different product, even if they were mostly the same. This obfuscated the most valuable piece of information or power that consumer’s have in a buying situation. You were rendered to the experience in the store and the product descriptions of the sales person. The retailer was now totally in control of the experience.
...This people-based model created incredible trust and loyalty in a very fast moving, dynamic period of time.
Then, the experience of unboxing was simply marketing genius that a traditional store could never replicate. It was a visceral, shareable moment of transformation. A queen mattress arriving in a "box" that was the size of a refrigerator in a dorm room was such an absurd moment and it was powerful just in itself!People were not only mesmerized by the transformation; the bill of sale for their mattress became advertising when they made a video of it, and posted it to YouTube and Instagram! The visceral encounter of the compressed foam expanding, making that "whump" sound, and unlocking to a full bed was a slow-motion moment that felt almost magical. It was a physical manifestation of the brand promise, "We've made something complicated, simple." And there was no competing with that experience in a retail experience, which meant you would have to accept waiting for a delivery truck, 2 strong men, and the inevitable awkward triage of moving the new mattress up to the second floor— at the very least. The marketing strategy praxis behind some of these mattress brands was a student exhibition for new media strategy. They didn't purchase ads, they relied on the social lubrication of contemporary culture, the word-of-mouth medium was (drumroll, please)... podcasts. When you listen to a host you trust, someone who is friend-like in the nature of that exchange, describe her struggles with sleep, and unqualified enthusiasm for her Casper or Purple mattress, there was an element of social proof in ways traditional media could not underscore. It became the equivalent of a referral recommendation that rested on mutual trust, not plain a advertisement. The affiliate marketing model where bloggers and review sites earned commission on sales created a sprawling decentralized sales force, all of whom had a financial incentive to discuss your mattress, endlessly.It seemed that the whole internet was discussing mattresses-in-a-box, and, well, you got an invitation and a seat at the table.
So now we get to look behind the curtain, because universal comfort was both brilliant marketing, as well as sound logistics. For a venture capital backed startup with thin margins, it was infinitely more scalable to manufacture one or maybe two models of mattresses than a dozen. One style simplified inventory complexity and enormous economies of scale. A "one-size-fits-most" medium-firm mattress was calculated speculation that the model could meet statistical majority comfort needs. For many, it did. For a very large minority, it did not. The early criticisms of an online mattress often honed in on this lack of specificity, sometimes summed up with “the bed is fine” and were more accurately about a lack of specificity for a comfort need. It was a tradeoff: extreme convenience and competitive price models for some degree of sacrifice of customization.
We should not ignore “mattress as a tech product." Mattress companies were not perceived as furniture companies, they were technology companies that sold mattresses. This was by no accident. They had the ability to sell “innovation" “disruption”, “algorithms for sleep”, and speak the language of Silicon Valley: This is a product that is “engineered" and not “manufactured.” This is an important distinction.This attracted a specific type of buyer: young, technology-oriented, doubtful of regular retail, and almost always gullible to DTC and online models, or labeling a different way to buy a mattress. In effect, they weren't only purchasing a bed. They were opting into a modern, optimized, robotic lifestyle.
If you want to understand the mattress business, you need to understand the people who do it. Think of a Mattress Firm mattress salesperson in the business for twenty years (let's call him Bob). Bob has been through the fashion from waterbeds to the pillow top resurgence. Bob can tell a back sleeper from a side sleeper simply by watching them walk across the showroom floor. Bob knows this because he has transitioned hundreds of thousands of customers through the sales floor over time, and his is encyclopedic expertise. Bob has genuinely helped individuals feel better from chronic back pain. Bob has already walked couples through awkward negotiations about firmness. When online brands took off, Bob experienced a blend of both satisfaction and frustration.He felt frustrated because he knew that customers were coming into his store, lying down on his beds, and then going home and ordering a cheaper model online after getting his advice. He called this "showrooming." He also felt satisfaction because he would have customers come back to him frustrated with their "universally comfortable" mattress that they purchased online after not sleeping well and saying something like "My back hurts," and he would gleefully sell them the Stearns & Foster mattress that he knew was the right one all along. For Bob, a mattress is not a commodity that comes in a box. It is a subtle and nuanced product that needs a human guide.
On the other side is Chloe, a customer service representative for a large online mattress operation. Her battlefield is the live chat window (or support ticket). Her weapon is empathy. She has a deep understanding of company policies. Chloe spends her days reassuring indecisive first-time customers that all will be well and then walking elderly customers through the initial unboxing process step-by-step ("Yes, it’s normal for there to be a little smell the first time you unbox the mattress, and that will go away in a few hours!” Okay, established order management.), and going through the return logistics processes. Chloe is the human face of this seemingly faceless/binary digital operation. Chloe also externalizes the unfiltered raw material of these customer experiences: The joy of a first-time parent finally being able to catch up on some rest during the first night with their new mattress! The frustrated customer who calls, who lives in a very hot climate, that doesn’t really feel the,” cooling gel” is working. Or, the confusion from someone who had a hotel stay with a mattress prior to purchasing the online variation, and calls back to say it feels different at their home vs the hotel.
The tension between these two worlds and experiences, is really the essence of the mattress story we are discussing today, which is an intersection from deep tactile expertise around a mattress purchase, to empathetic ability to scale. The mattress world is evolving quickly through an evolution of merging these two worlds, and then colliding them.
...The competition isn’t over the channel anymore — it’s over the brand, the value proposition, and the customer experience.
This convergence was messy, iterative, and interesting. When Mattress Firm launched Tulo, it was not just a me-too product, but a strategic experiment in fighting fire with fire. They could tap of their supply chains and brand awareness to create a competitor to the bed-in-a-box, but more importantly, they could use it as a “foot in the door.” A customer could buy a Tulo online, and when they are ready to step up years later, they would have a relationship in the Mattress Firm ecosystem. In their minds, this was a way to capture the segment of the market they were losing.
Their embrace of the risk-free trial was a major change in their business. For a company built on final sales, offering a trial for 120 nights and would take it back? Terrifying. The logistical and financial costs of returns — taking a used mattress back, sanitizing it and foregoing the revenue — had to be overwhelming. However, it was a cost of doing business, if they wanted to stay alive. It gave them no choice but to find efficiencies in their logistics, and have confidence in the quality of their offering. It told the consumer that they were playing by the new rules.
For the online brands, the move into brick-and-mortar changed everything as well. Casper’s nap shops were a design and branding home run.They recognized that their target market was put off in particular with traditional showrooms as they found them intimidating and cheesy. Consequently, they started creating spaces that felt like the lobby of a cool boutique hotel—minimalist, soft lighting, and holes with curated art on the walls. You wouldn't "test" a mattress; you'd "book a nap." This changed the entire experience from a commercial transaction to a wellness activity. It was genius. By teaming with Target, they achieved a level of physical ubiquity that would have taken tens of years and hundreds of millions of dollars to achieve on their own. All of the sudden someone might be in the store buying laundry detergent and cat food and then spontaneously lay down on a Casper. It normalized the brand and demystified the product.
The product evolution has been the most telling indicator of this convergence. The online companies' initial "one mattress" philosophy was a clever initial opening strategy, but it was not going to be sustainably viable in the long run. Too much diversity exists in the human body. The move to hybrids was especially telling. By adding coils, they were implicitly accepting that the traditional inner spring had some merit: better airflow, more responsive, more familiar bounce. Their more premium lines, like the Casper Wave or the Saatva Solaire, that features an adjustable air chamber, began competing head-on with more established highlines like TempurPedic and Sleep Number lines. They were no longer the cheap disruptors; they were now full-spectrum sleep companies.
Interestingly, this is where the old guard manufacturers were beginning a quiet revolution of their own. They were beginning to tear pages out of the startups' playbook.They put effort and resources into developing their own proprietary cooling fabrics, engineered phase-change materials, and eco-foams. The latest Beautyrest Black hybrid for example, is a tech marvel that is a match for anything online. They also began streamlining their messaging, developing a clearer tiered system (Good, Better, Best) to help consumers make sense of their line without requiring a salesperson to guide them.
Like the rest of America, consumers are developing a broader level of literacy around mattresses, which has now evolved to requiring something beyond soft or firm, or perhaps with "gel" or "latex." Now, you need to understand the terms and the meaning they attribute to the materials themselves. So let's break down what you are actually paying for.
This is the base, the part that gives the mattress its basic support and prevents you from sinking to the floor.
Innersprings/Bonnell Coils: This is the classic hourglass-shaped coil and is often a continuous system. This is the oldest and most basic system. This is durable and firms with bounce but can be prone to motion transfer and create pressure points as the continuous coils push against one another.
Pocketed Coils: This is now the modern standard for quality innersprings. Each coil is its own individual fabric pocket, which allows for independent movement. This gives better contouring, reduces motion transfer (a godsend for couples), and allows a zoned support (softer coils under the shoulders, firmer coils under the hips).
High-Density Polyurethane Foam: ThisIt serves as a foundational support layer in foam mattresses. The most important criterion is density, based on pounds per cubic foot (PCF). A low-density foam (1.5 PCF) will compress more quickly and will feel inadequate for support. A high-density foam (2.0 PCF and higher) will have better durability and support. This is an important specification to inquiry about; anyone who is using low-density base foam is skimping.
Latex: A higher-cost option made from the sap of rubber trees (natural) or synthetically made or derived. Latex is used for its durability and breathable, unique "buoyant" support feel. It pushes back on the body rather than let you sink into it. It is also a naturally cool feeling material. It is also hypoallergenic, but comes at a higher cost.
This is the top of the mattress that you will be making direct contact within some capacity. This will provide pressure relief and the immediate "feel" of the bed.
Memory Foam: Famous for its slow-moving, contouring, "hug". It is excellent for pressure relief, making it a good option for side sleepers. The classic downfall of the material is probably the heat; however, there have been advancements in **open-cell memory foam** and **gel-infusions**, of these options may improve airflow, but basic function of the material is to trap heat.
Polyfoam: A foam that is more responsive, bouncier than memory foam. This foam will also commonly act as a transition layer between the support core and the upper comfort layer. Again, density is king for lasting.
Latex: A comfort layer material that offers a more responsive, pressure relieving feel, that also sleeps cooler than memory foam. Pillow-Tops & Euro-Tops: These are soft layers sewn onto the mattress. In a pillow-top attached flush with the edge of the mattress, while euro tops are sewn in underneath (it is not the wire-edge style). The look is more integrated and streamlined. They add softness, but they can sometimes give a "quicksand" feeling (as if you are on top of the mattress rather than cradled in it).
The Cover: Often a time as overlooked as the innerspring, the innerspring is the first line of defense of the mattress and contributes to overall comfort. Look for breathable, removable, and washable covers, if possible. Tencel is a material made from eucalyptus that has been found to be soft, smooth (or "cool" against the skin) and wick moisture away. Organic cotton is another high-ranked soft and breathable option.
Once you understand a few of these components, you will go from an uninformed consumer to an informed shopper. Use examples like: if a salesperson, or a website's remark, mentions, "zoned support", then you can follow up with: is that through a pocketed coil system, or through different foam firmnesses in the comfort-layer? Or, when they say "cooling" you can ask if that is a phase-change material in the cover, gel-infused foam, or just because the hybrid is made up of generally an open structure.
This is the power of knowledge.
...This tangible reference point would make you much more confident should you then pull the trigger on an online model you cannot test.
Let's get tactical. You are taking on a project of a mattress hunt, and like any good project it helps to have a plan.
This is likely the most critical component and it tends to be the step we skip over or forget. You should examine your body and needs.
1. Sleep Postion: Are you a back, side, stomach, or combination sleeper? I believe this is the primary factor for ideal firmness. Side sleepers typically need a mattress surface that is softer to conform to the hips and shoulders, while stomach and back are usually stiff to support proper spinal alignment.
2. Body Weight and Type: Heavier people should look for a bed with a better support system (more coils or higher density foam) to avoid sagging early on. They might also prefer it to be a little firmer to prevent that hammock type feel. Heavier patients can feel that a firm mattress is too hard and will like a top layer that has a little plushtness.
3. Temperature Regulation: Do you get hot when you sleep? If yes, this is a deal breaker. If so, you should lean toward (hybrids or all-latex). Trust me, be skeptical of all-foam beds, even the ones claiming to be cool.
4. Pain Points: Do you experience chronic back, shoulder, or hip discomfort? This is often an informant to get better support or pressure relief. A medium-firm hybrid has worked miracles for my wake up lower back pain with a zoned coil system.
5. Partner: Did you reside with a partner? Try to be considerate of your partners sleeping preference, while also to consider whatever motion isolation and edge support. If they get up a lot at night, a memory foam or more dense latex bed will help minimize inadvertent movement.
Now that you have conducted some self-assessment you are able to research now
In-Store Shopping: Your goal is to get experiential data. Go to a busy Mattress Firm at a slow time on the early afternoon of a weekday. Bring your pillow from home. Wear clothing that is loose and comfortable. Let the salesperson know you are only there for research purposes. Be polite but assertive. Lie on each candidate for 15 full minutes. Do not just lie on your back: Get into the actual positions that you sleep in. Consider how your spine feels. Is it in a straight line? Do you have any discomfort in your hips or shoulders? Sit on the edge of the mattress to test the edge support. Does it sink fully or does it hold you firm?
For Online Research: You will want to research independent of the brands' own website. Look for independent review sites and sites that actually tear apart the mattresses and consider the materials and construction. Review the comments left by users on sites like Reddit and dedicated bed forums and look for patterns. The key word here is "pattern." You do not want to be distracted by one great or one terrible review; you want to see what the majority of the people say about durability, firmness and heat.
Once you have narrowed it down, put your plan into action.
Read The Fine Print: This is mandatory. Educate yourself on the actual trial period. Is there an official break-in period? Who arranges the pickup for returns? Are there any hidden terms for restocking or shipping costs? In terms of warranties, what is the sagging depth that is included (usually between 1 and 1.5 inches)? Warranties are pro-rated, so as time goes on, they decrease in value.
Cleaning Your Space: Before the delivery or your box arrives, clear a path to your bedroom. If you're getting rid of your old mattress as part of the deal, have it all ready to go. If you're getting a bed-in-a-box, you're going to want a buddy to help you unbox the heavy, tightly rolled mattress and get it onto your bed frame.
Give Yourself a Break In Period: It's wise to give yourself at least 30 nights on your new bed. Your body has spent a long time getting used to your old bed and needs to have time to adjust and find proper support. You may even experience brief moments of new, minor soreness as your spine begins to re-align. A few minor aches is not a definite indication that you bought the wrong mattress.
The mattress market has a waste problem. The 100-night trial we love so much has a darkside - specifically returned beds. While some beds are donated to charity, there are only so many that a local charity will take. Most charities can only accept so many returned beds, specifically for hygienic reasons. Therefore, most returned beds end up in a landfill. Mattresses are bulky, difficult items to recycle. Steel springs can be removed and recycled while foams and fabrics typically are downcycled into carpet padding - or thrown away. As a conscious consumer, yes, you should ask about a company's sustainability and donation practices. Sure, some companies are using more recyclable materials, and some companies are intentionally forging closer links to recycling services. When you are ready to get rid of your old mattress, instead of just calling a junk service, ask about a local recycling service. All of the new, convenient, consumer-friendly newness of this new world of mattress shopping comes with a new, developing environmental footprint.
Be it from the calming web presence of a site, or the slight offended feeling of trying to sleep on a showroom mattress, you can feel a little less guilty that, both the competition is stronger than ever on the customer side of the transaction, and they seem to actually care about serving you as a consumer side of the transaction.
The mattress search that was once calculated as a nightmare, is now framed as a brave choice. Echoing remnants of old, unsubstantiated, uncomfortable, rapid sale tactics still linger but are now framed by an readily accessible trial which they've marketed very well to get you getting poorly described 100-night experience. Within the showroom, the felt disorientation is now on the verge (often deliberate cacophony) of information overload, while online, the confused distractions you fatigued from the showroom seem trivial in the electric ether of the public library of: that is, the level of process information you consume online.
The time of hybrid vigor has arrived. Traditional retail has now changed to be fully transparent, and the customer's once untamed desire to have it your way, is now completely, virtually approximate; and now, online brands have grown, changed, diversified, innovated and need to provide authority back to their consumer trust. A market serving you, your sleep, and sleep consumer behavior has never been so oriented. You can have your cake and eat it too, what I mean is that you can have the real tactile knowledge you get when visiting a sample showroom while also having the ease of engagement as a risk adverse internet shopper.
Determining as "the right" mattress will and always be a very personal choice, after all, it the next silent companion for 1/3 of your life. The journey to narrowing down discovering "the right" mattress has only become easier, broader, more tuneful experiences, and overall, powerful directly in your hands. You may start your experience with a click or walk through an automatic door, yet your plan ends the same place. That is, your considering these things to quickly sleep tonight, each time, ideally under the weight of warm experience of rewarding sleep in the anticipation that tomorrow--most likely, ponder--will be a good day, all under very same old foam, coils and human experiencing consuming behavior.